Betsy     

        The Nameless rejoiced in group activities, and this aspect of their lifestyle was one of the most shocking to the egos. This had been the revolution in human history, that two souls had liked one another. This required a “direct spiritual perception,” which means that the intrinsic or unchanging aspects of personality could be seen, so the idea about another person was full and adequate, rather than a hodgepodge of unrelated sense experience drawn together as selfish use is sought from the objects of sense experience, as it is among egos. The egos quite literally did not “see” any other person as real, a fact they never ceased to demonstrate. The most garish proof is that the egos don’t accept future generations as real, so that the planet was plundered for today’s greed, ignoring tomorrow’s need. The humans served an unlimited material expansion, including unlimited population growth and unlimited proliferation of material desires, until the Earth was brought to the brink of destruction. But they never really noticed this was so.
        If a human saw two of the Nameless together in a room, at first they’d think, “Oh, it is friends,” sure they know what friendship is. But then the human begins to notice, at a level below conscious comprehension but which is vitally offensive to its private project, that negativity is absent from the conversation, and the two are also not “schmoozing,” which is to say validating one another from the senses. The ego is small-minded. It only really sees its own private project of intellectual expansion, which it conceives as being increasing domination of the material sphere, with no spirit-based concept of another real living person. Therefore as egos form “friendships,” they are affairs of mutual selfish use. One says, “I did this great thing,” the other replies, “I agree you are very great, and I did this other great thing,” to which the other replies, “I agree you are very great.” Therefore the egos take off flying into a land of mutual support that may be called “the matrix,” that is divorced from the standards of God and His righteous angels. All this support is contingent, based on false standards derived from comparisons made in the sense realm. The egos do not have great personalities. As they report their attempts at “great things,” really it is like raw sense experience, not given in a personal context. Hearing that is like sandpaper on the ears, for the powerful souls. These same powerful souls take in sense experience by “personal handles,” which means as they experience the senses they are already preparing to share this beautifully with others. They do “double work,” just in living in an everyday situation, where the egos are struggling to make a first impression in skills on the material plane. As the powerful souls or angels converse, it also sounds like sandpaper across the ears of egos. It looks like they are picking out all the wrong elements from sense experience to report, for there is no trace of selfish use in any of it.
        So what Betsy and the others found, was that mysteriously, just by staying in a room together, the egos were given cause to flee. Viewing majestic behavior, which is two noble people who like one another from a direct perception of real attributes, the ego finds no reflections of its own motivation. It cannot understand, why those two people are remaining together, and if it is this baffled by two, just imagine two hundred or more! Unless you have a powerful soul, sense experience acts powerfully to divide attention and distract from the spiritual core of life. Spiritual power can be likened to an ability to withdraw one’s face from a pool of mud, in which everyone’s face is plunged by the very fact of embodiment. The very powerful can withdraw from this to a pure spiritual perception, and when they do so the very weak are not going to understand what they are seeing. The angelic mind could be likened to an invisible bulldozer, where the humans have only small shovels, and most of the dirt they move falls on their own heads. The bulldozer undergoes frequent backing up motions, that look like the absence of power to the egos, as they frantically identify with the senses and live by immediate reactions to them. Again and again the bulldozers back up, and the biggest bulldozers back up the most of all. The other bulldozers know the power of a bulldozer, and recognize that the one who keeps backing up the most does so from spiritual awareness, seeing the profundities at the core of life more clearly than anyone else. The shovelers never heard of a bulldozer, and don’t think their activities can amount to much, though mountains are moved.
        You can say this too, that a rich relationship is the result of continuously renewed discovery, a process that is deep and difficult to maintain. The senses draw attention away from spirit, but to have a rich relationship requires attention be directed again and again at spirit. The ones who can achieve this feat live in a different land from those who cannot. For them, the object-field recedes and the personal interaction becomes “the thing,” what they treasure most about living. It is this Jesus meant by “laying up treasures in Heaven,” but that was weakly stated and misleading, where “Heaven” must be interpreted as the blissful state of mind in a life drawn powerfully from above the senses.
        Betsy knew personally that another dividing force against the egos had been the fact that God created the male and female souls to be absolutely equal by power, but different in specific attribute, as each had in a sense been carved out from the “full person” with opposing characteristics meant to result in a rich and dynamic dance of spirit between the sexes. This had been done to enhance the beauty of the created souls in a situation where they were relatively small, and would remain so. The Lord was under no such restrictions, and alone among beings could be described neither as “male,” nor as “female.” Among the egos, the males had always dominated the females by intellect, as these females in turn dominated the males by emotion. These are not the true male/female attributes, but corruptions derived from an arrangement of mutual selfish use by co-domination. When the Nameless had first separated from the world, the female angels were at last allowed to reveal their fuller intellectual power, that is shocking to egos both male and female. The male egos had kept even the greatest of the female angels in iron bonds of oppression, enforced by cruelty and violence. But when the female angels gathered together they began to know their strength, supported by male angels who did not impose unduly against their intellects, and had their own powerful emotions besides.
        Non-touching and delayed dating had also taken the egos by surprise. If an ego dared to venture within the communities of the Nameless, he’d presume the females were there to serve him, and could be easily had in a brief courtship ritual. Instead he found the females hating such ideas and turning fiercely against his proposals, no longer the meek roses that men pluck from the fields of their desire! Among the Nameless the natural order was that one waited until the late twenties or early thirties to think of dating. That period of the twenties was in many ways the richest one of life, where the person meditated deeply and enjoyed the companionship of many friends. Eventually the soul-mate always appeared if that person had one, but it was in a context no longer driven by the hormones or the senses. The Nameless found constant evidence that soul-mates developed across lifetimes and solar cycles, the two souls intertwining in fantastic and beautiful ways. To see this network of intertwining makes infidelity impossible, because you then know that being with the wrong one is like trying to squeeze a size 12 foot into a size 3 shoe! Then, the courtships of the Nameless always lasted a minimum of two years, with no touching at all the first year, and minimal touching like holding hands or a peck on the cheek, the second year. Many couples liked to extend these intervals, since the thrills of encountering the personality of the beloved easily best any sensations that the senses can convey through the body, to those who have the direct spiritual perception. Finding such barriers, the egos fled in horror should they chance to land among the Nameless, attempting to live among them.
        Betsy found that she had the power to differentiate her love. She could love hundreds or thousands of people as “dear ones,” which the community living situation allowed her to develop over many daily encounters over decades, where you see a snippet of someone’s personality over here, than another over there, and gradually build a warm mental model. But she found this was really true within her heart, that these loves were experienced as totally unrelated to her love for the soul-mate, as if emerging from an entirely different spring. A third to a half of most communities were comprised of individuals who stayed single throughout life. In God’s dispensation for the souls, a choice of pure freedom is also allowed, and some souls had made that choice, citing enhanced states of ecstasy and power over universal love rather than particular love. But Betsy had a soul-mate, and thus fell into a different part of God’s dispensation, which is the majority condition. There are advantages to each lifestyle, the couples claiming a unique warmth and special discrimination in encountering the “one and only.” Her twenties had been a most exciting time of her life, where she wasn’t really sure she had a soul-mate, and wondered if she had made the choice for pure freedom. But by divine dispensation, from within her soul and without, one day she had awakened to recognition of the soul-mate. Since it is the male portion to cherish freedom over relation, she’d had a tough time convincing the one she was sure was her soul-mate, but she’d have wanted it no other way. Finding him in a state convinced he was one of the ever-free souls, he was also preserved for her perfectly. They had made it across death’s fierce barrier to reunite in the next life without any events of infidelity even as existed among the humans seeking girlfriends and boyfriends from puberty. That was the highest type of life that God intended for those He had made.
        Strangely then, the egos shunned the Nameless naturally, without a need for laws or banishment. The pure selfless state was all-repelling, for it “got under the skin” of egos in a profound way, striking hard against what they hold most dear, which is dualistic thinking. Betsy was delighted to have full use of her intellect, though this made it tougher for the women to go on interacting with those in the world, than it was for the men. Delegations were sent out, education and training were sought, but it was easier for a man to go out into the main society alone, than for a woman, so devastating were the bonds of oppression emerging from the male egos. The Lord had not brought holism intact to the world. Uses had still been found for an unthinking science and a greed-driven society. A person capable of truly holistic thinking such as Betsy, could also embrace the principles of science, therefore Betsy had gone out into the world for special training as a scientist. However, she found she needed to stay in contact with other women from her “home base,” where the men were sometimes able to go months at a time on their own among the egos. Every day of her training had been a burden for her, as she found the males expecting her to stuff her intellect into a corner, though among scientists her powers had been easier to mask. If they were going to talk about science, she seemed to do alright, but any personal encounters were horrifying for her. Talking with her female friends from among the Nameless was like a breath of fresh air she needed desperately, and as she did so she could begin to categories the troubles of the egos, as they differed from her friends.

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